I'm so pissed off, so I'm gonna use you guys to vent my frustration. I've been playing on my baseball team for ten years now. When Drew and I started dating the first time, he would come out as a spectator, and eventually he began to play for the team. Then when we broke up, he stopped coming out to ball. Well, after a season or two, Drew started coming out to watch again, and then, again, he rejoined the team. That was when we decided to try being in a relationship again. As you all know, due to his inability to be honest in a relationship, it fell apart and ended after about 7 months. Okay, so that's the back ground information.
When I began the season this year, I was told that Drew didn't want to play because of what had happened between us, but his friends were urging him to shake it off and come out anyway. So he ended up playing for the team after all.
So I've found it very awkward this year because he's made some good friends on the team, so now the team seems very divided. Nobody is mean to me or anything, but if Kelly and I are on one side of the field, Drew and his posse are on the other. If Kelly and I wander over to hang out, Drew wanders away, followed by all his friends, leaving Kelly and I standing there together. This is getting so uncomfortable, I'm not having fun anymore. I told the team manager that I will play in the games if they are short females, but if they don't need me, I'm staying home. I don't want to leave them in the lurch, but at the same time, it really sucks to feel so excluded.
Now I'm just finding out that we're having our baseball team party, but I haven't heard a thing about it. Like, excuse me, I'm not invited to my team party? It's being held at the home of a good friend of Drew's so I guess this is Drew's team now, and not mine. So why the hell should I care if they need me or not? I just want to quit and be done with it. I almost burst into tears on the field when my "friend" who's on the team told me about the party. The fact is, I'm going to a wedding the day of the party, and I have an invitation from another friend to go for drinks at her place that night, so I couldn't have gone to the baseball party anyway. But "ouch" it stings that I'm being left out like this. Am I in Junior high again? And how did the entire team manage to keep it so hush-hush about the party? Like, don't talk about it around Sharon, she's not invited. But we'll use her to fill a spot on the team so we have enough girls.
Anyway, I'm so done with this crap. They can stuff it.
Me and my baby on her 19th Birthday!
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About Me
- sharon
- I'm a 39 year old mom of a 21 year old girl. I live with my gorgeous, wonderful daughter. I love my family and friends, and enjoy being a hair stylist. People leave the salon with a little extra spring in their step. That's a good thing.
15 comments:
How petty and childish of your teammates. You deserve so much better. I'd like to walk up and kick em all right smack in the shins for you.
What a bunch of pussies! You've been on that team longer than most of those people. I hope Drew is getting his ya yas out of this, cuz that's all he's gonna get. I'd tell the team to shove it up their collective asses. Not enough girls for a game? TOUGH! Why should you feel obligated to a team like this? It does sound like high school. How many of these people are TRUE friends anyway? Bin em!
Mess with MY sister will ya? I'll take ya all on, with both hands tied behind my back. Grrrrrr :)
SonuvableepbleepbleepWhatthe??? Please excuse my French. It happens when I'm outraged. What a bunch of babies. They're how old? 13? 15? Who knew adults could be so immature. Like my dad always said, With friends like that, who needs enemies!
(BTW: when you first said short females, I pictured little midgets. Thought they needed the height advantage. haha. Apparently they need brains more than ability. Two-faced wusses all of them. Ya want I should come and smack em around a little?
Do they call themselves a TEAM?... No way.
See what jealousy can do to people. It transforms adults into adolescents seeking for some sort of revenge. I should say, leave them for a while and wait and see... because I think your "enemies" will leave "the team" when you're no longer there to tease and to offend. I would say, take some distance from them and stand above this situation.
Now you know who your friends are.
The jerks in this baseball team piss me off! Sharon has has done nothing but tried to get along with everyone and what does she get?....she gets walked on and treated like sh*t! All I can say is I am glad that one day these people will feel what it is like, the universe will pay it to them....I just hope we are there to watch :D
Herman: I agree totally with what you had to say...but I am having a hard time keeping my cool and staying out of it.
I love you Sharon!
I agree with all of the above.I don't think you outgrow being childish about some things, you are either adults about things or you stay in the playground or in their case the field!No wonder some kids are so crappy, they get it from their parents.
Last Saturday my cousins boy knocked my sons teeth in and broke them with a flashlight. When I told his mom her only reply was "OH , boys will be boys" and I was left with a dentists bill that could pay for a small holiday!Bitch, I felt like slapping her teeth in.
Regardless, I love you very much and as you can see, you have many friends who feel the same as me.
DON'T WORRY ABOUT THOSE YAHOOS!!!!!!! Kiki
Typo: (Curtis learned that language)
Kelly: Avoid the confrontation because it's just what they want. Stay away from that kind of people, that's the best you can do.
Everyone is right and so are you. Just tell em they are lucky because they can kiss your butt and you can't.
Good thing for Drewpuke that your uncle doesn't live out there because I would have a talk with the little twit. He probably wouldn't be able to play ball for awhile but how was I to know he was going to slip on the ice and fall down.
Oh excuse me...I just cut a drewwy...and it stinks too. Ok I'm done now.
I love you guys so much! You rock and you crack me up too. LOl Curtis, I'm still laughing my ass off. tee hee. Oops, I laughed so hard I think I drewed.
Aww Sharon,
That really sucks.
But like herman says, just steer clear. If your feelings mean so little, then these people arent worthy of your efforts. There are other teams out there who would snatch you up in a second!
Curtis:
Your one-liner is one to remember! LOL.
They are all just a bunch of twats. You can tell them I said that.
Find another team that isn't full of shit heads. Then when your new team plays them accidentally head a few of them in the head with the ball.
C'mon Sharon, time for a new blog. We hate seeing you pissed for so long.
Penny is right, get on with it. We know you are buisy with work, Alicia and Kelly but we need you too. Come on give us some funny old stories. You have tons of them in your memory box!
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